Advice from a friend

Breast Cancer effects 1 out of 8 women.

When I found out I needed my biopsy I knew there was a co-worker I needed to speak to. I didn't know her very well, but I heard she had breast cancer years ago. I approached her and discreetly explained what was happening to me. She immediately understood we needed to talk. I will always appreciate her sincerity. She prepared me, and warned me not to look ahead, just deal with what I know. I asked her what kind of breast cancer that she had? I remember her stressing to me that everyone is unique, and there are so many different types of breast cancers, and not to compare hers or others to myself. That stuck in my mind. It was true. There are so many parts of it (cancer in general) to consider. She was a wonderful help to me before, during and after.

Her understanding me, her listening to me, helped me to deal more then she'll ever know.